KEY THINGS PEOPLE IGNORE BEFORE MARRIAGE
1. Communication Style
How you talk during peace is different from how you talk during conflict.
2. Conflict Resolution
Do you resolve issues or sweep them under the carpet?
3. Money Mindset
Spending habits, debt, saving culture, and financial transparency.
4. Emotional Maturity
Can your partner apologize, accept correction, and take responsibility?
5. Expectations in Marriage
Roles, responsibilities, lifestyle, and standards.
6. Family Boundaries & In-Laws
Who comes first — spouse or parents?
7. Values & Beliefs
Faith, morals, principles, and life priorities.
8. Life Goals & Direction
Career plans, relocation, children, and long-term vision.
9. Anger & Temperament
How your partner reacts when upset or stressed.
10. Respect (Not Just Love)
Love can fade temporarily, but respect must remain constant.
11. Handling Stress & Pressure
How they act during hardship, not comfort.
12. Sexual Expectations & Intimacy
Needs, boundaries, and openness (without details).
13. Health & Genetics
Physical, mental health history, and genotype discussions.
14. Past Trauma & Baggage
Unhealed wounds can show up in marriage.
15. Parenting Style
Discipline, education, and values for children.
16. Friendships & Influences
Who has access and influence over your partner?
17. Honesty & Transparency
Secrets before marriage often become scandals after.
18. Growth Mindset
Are you both willing to learn and change?
19. Decision-Making Style
Who decides what, and how?
20. Definition of Love & Commitment
What does cheating, loyalty, and commitment mean to each of you?

Family of bride whose marriage ended after two days release evidence to dispute groom's claim as they accuse him of lying to cover his philandering ways.

Uchechi Sandra Nnenne, 22, married Iwuchukwu Chukwuebuka Bobby, 29, on Jan. 4, 2025, and by Jan. 6, 2025, the marriage was over.

Sandra gave reasons for this, including that he lied about many things, borrowed money from her and also tried to borrow millions from her parents. She added that her family largely sponsored the wedding with N7million.

Reacting Bobby told LIB that he ended the marriage because Sandra was pregnant for her boss. When LIB asked him what happened to the baby since there was no baby bump and Sandra has not given birth after 11 months, he claimed she must have k!lled the child.

Sandra's family members have now reached out to LIB with evidence corroborating their sister's claim.

They shared with us audio recordings, purportedly of Chukwuebuka, aka Bobby, begging Sandra's father for forgiveness for cheating on his child with multiple women, including with one of her friends.

They also shared screenshots of messages Bobby sent to their mother and to Sandra's sisters, begging for forgiveness for cheating on Sandra while asking them to beg her not to end the marriage.

Another screenshot purportedly shows him attempting to strike up a relationship with another woman and when she asked if he wasn't married, he claimed the marriage ended due to genotype issues, claiming they were both AS, even though Sandra is AA.

Eventually, when he saw Sandra had resolved to walk away, he allegedly began a smear campaign against her and changed the genotype incompatibility story.

More to come, including voice notes purportedly of Bobby admitting he cheated and begging for forgiveness, and a reconciliation with Sandra.

Ex-Jigawa Lawmaker Jailed Over ₦5 Million Fraud.

A former lawmaker in Jigawa State, Hon. Shu’ibu Kashim Dila, has been convicted and sentenced for offences bordering on conspiracy, breach of trust, and cheating after a six-month trial at the Chief Magistrate Court II in Dutse.

Dila, who hails from Malam Madori Local Government Area, was found guilty by Chief Magistrate Abdullahi Ibrahim Aliyu after the Jigawa State Public Complaints and Anti-Corruption Commission (JSPCACC) brought charges against him.

According to the Commission’s spokesperson, Yusuf Suleiman, the case was triggered by a petition filed on February 17, 2025, by Aisha Yusuf of Hadejia Local Government.

She accused Dila, working in concert with his wife, of deceitfully obtaining ₦5 million from her with a written agreement that the money would be repaid within a month.

When the deadline passed, the defendant allegedly sent his wife away to an unknown location to avoid honouring the agreement.

Following an investigation, the Commission said Dila confessed to the act, and evidence showed clear intent to defraud.

He was arraigned on a three-count charge.

During the trial, the prosecution team, led by Barrister Zubairu Haladu, called three witnesses and presented two exhibits. The defence, on the other hand, produced two witnesses but offered no exhibits.

Married man kills lover for cheating on him in Plateau.

A 51-year-old married man identified as Moses Abraham, has been arrested by the police in Jos, Plateau State, for beating his lover to death after catching her with another man.

The incident which reportedly happened on Friday, occurred in the Legislative Quarters area of Jos, the state capital, when Abraham, a long distance tanker driver, went to visit the deceased whose name was given as Cecilia, to spend the night with her only to meet another man in the apartment he rented for her.

According to an eyewitness who live in the same neighbourhood as the deceased, following the discovery of another man in his lover’s apartment, Abraham was said to have left and gone/to a nearby bar where he waited for the man to leave while taking some alcoholic liquors.

The eyewitness said late in the night, the suspect, a father of five, went back to Cecilia’s apartment, locked the door and gave her the beating of her life, hitting her head on the wall several times, before finally using a stone to crush her skull.

“From what we know, the man lives in Bidi-Bidi and is married with four children. The late woman, Cecilia, is separated from her husband and it was Abraham that rented the apartment for her while she runs a salon nearby,” the neighbour said.

“What happened that led to the death of Cecilia, according to what Abraham said, was that he came to her place without informing her because he was told she used to bring home other men whenever he was out of town because he is a long distance tanker driver.

“So on that Friday, he came and met a man in her apartment which caused the fight which ultimately led to her demise,” he stated.

He added that after killing Cecilia, Abraham went to the nearby Nasarawa-Gwom police station to report the murder and turn himself in. He then led the police to Cecilia’s apartment where the corpse was evacuated and taken to a mortuary while Abraham was taken into custody.

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Over 6,400 Candidates At Risk As JAMB Panel Submits UTME Malpractice Report

The Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB) says its Special Committee on Examination Infractions will submit its final report today, September 8, 2025, amid ongoing controversies over widespread cheating in this year’s Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (UTME).

The committee, chaired by Dr. Jake Epelle, was set up in August to probe 6,458 withheld results linked to impersonation, AI-assisted cheating, and server hacking during the April–May exams.

If found guilty, candidates risk cancellation of results, disqualification from future exams, or prosecution. Education stakeholders say the report could reshape Nigeria’s exam system, as JAMB faces pressure to balance sanctions with fairness to innocent candidates.

WAEC Under Fire: Lagos NUT Accuses Exam Body of Knowing About Question Leak Sites

“You can’t claim ignorance when your exam questions end up online,” — NUT Lagos Chairman

The Nigeria Union of Teachers (NUT), Lagos Wing has accused the West African Examinations Council (WAEC) of being partly responsible for malpractice in the 2025 West African Senior School Certificate Examination (WASSCE), alleging the body is aware of websites where exam questions are leaked.

WAEC, which recently released the 2025 WASSCE results, had blamed widespread failure on its strict anti-malpractice measures, claiming it detected cheating during script marking.

But Akintoye Hassan, Lagos NUT Chairman, told Channels Television’s The Morning Brief that WAEC’s stance was hypocritical.

> “There are sites where students access leaked questions and WAEC knows about them. This latest exam scandal — with students writing late at night — happened because WAEC admitted their questions had leaked. If you can’t stop that, you’re culpable,” he said.


WAEC’s Technical Glitch and Result Suspension

Earlier this week, WAEC suspended result checking for Mathematics, English Language, Biology, and Economics after detecting technical glitches. The move sparked outrage among students and parents.

The council later fixed the issue, saying the review was to maintain fairness and professionalism.

Hassan commended WAEC for admitting fault over the glitch, calling it “a welcome development in ensuring transparency.”

#WAEC #WASSCE2025 #ExamMalpractice #NigeriaEducation #WAECLeakScandal #NUTLagos

Girlfriend Stabs Lover To Death Over Alleged Infidelity In Ondo.

A 25-year-old man, Micheal Ikuedowoni has been stabbed to death by his girlfriend identified as Augustina Mowari, in Okitipupa local government area of Ondo State.

Augustina was said to have stabbed his boyfriend to death following a dispute over alleged infidelity during the weekend.

The duo, reportedly living together in a single room were also said to always engage in persistent dispute over trust and suspected infidelity.

A source who preferred anonymity told LEADERSHIP that the misunderstanding between the lovers escalated into violent altercation.

The source, who was close to them, said, “Both of them had been having issues. The lady accused Michael of cheating on her with another woman, which led to a heated argument. In the course of the fight, she brought out a pair of scissors and stabbed him in the leg.”

The source further narrated that the deceased was initially taken to a nearby hospital, where he received treatment and was discharged after being administered with injections and prescribed medication.

“After being discharged, his condition deteriorated at home. His leg became swollen, and he was rushed back to the hospital on Sunday night. Unfortunately, he passed away despite the doctors’ efforts to save him,” the source narrated.

When contacted, Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO) in the state, DSP Olayinka Ayanlade, confirmed the incident.

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Ayanlade said the suspect had been arrested and currently in custody.

The PPRO said, “There was an argument between the two, which led to the suspect stabbing the victim with scissors. He later died in the hospital.

“The suspect is in our custody, and the case will be charged to the court after investigations are concluded.”

Snapchat Scandal: Davido Accused of Cheating on Wife Chioma, Alleged Mistress Claims He and Burna Boy Should Get Tested.

Anonymous Snapchat User Alleges Affair, Blackmail, and Health Risks Involving Davido, Burna Boy, and Other Nigerian Celebrities in Explosive Social Media Leak.

In a dramatic turn of events rocking Nigerian social media, global Afrobeats star Davido is at the center of a fresh controversy. A mysterious woman, using the Snapchat alias “MILKSHAKE,” has publicly accused Davido of cheating on his wife, Chioma Rowland Adeleke, in a series of explosive posts that have since gone viral.
The Snapchat stories, loaded with serious allegations, claim that Davido had an affair with a woman named Jessie Awazie and even paid ₦25 million to suppress a sex tape. The accuser also alleged that Davido housed the said mistress in five-star hotels, gifted her luxury items like a Birkin bag, and funded her business while ignoring his wife.
The drama doesn’t stop there. In an alarming twist, the accuser urged several male celebrities including Burna Boy, Zoro, Shina Peller, and others to get tested immediately, insinuating that Jessie is a health risk. The post bluntly stated, “Jessie is a CARRIER! Go and do a test RIGHT NOW!”

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Though neither Davido nor his wife Chioma has officially responded to the allegations, the bombshell posts have caused an uproar online, fueling speculation, outrage, and concern among fans and fellow celebrities.
As of now, legal teams are yet to issue statements, and no confirmations or denials have emerged from those accused

Man thrown off Lagos bridge by hoodlums needs N8m for surgery.

A 45-year-old man, Ismail Oreniwon, is battling for survival at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital after he was brutally attacked and thrown off a pedestrian bridge by suspected hoodlums in Mushin, Lagos.

Oreniwon, popularly known in his Oshodi-Arowojobe community as “LC,” was said to be returning home on July 9 when he was accosted by the attackers near the Ogunmokun area of Mushin.

He had initially tried to cross the railway tracks but turned around after being stopped by the miscreants.

He then attempted to use the pedestrian bridge, but the hoodlums followed him and reportedly beat him up before pushing him off the bridge.

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He landed face-first on the rail line below, sustaining multiple fractures in his mouth and lower body.

Some passersby rushed him to Mushin General Hospital, where he received emergency treatment.

A medical report from Fit Plus Healthcare, signed by Dr. Ita U., revealed severe pelvic and spinal fractures, including a “multi-fragmentary fracture of the right acetabulum with extension to the iliac bone,” among other serious injuries.


The medical report read, “Also noted is a transverse fracture to the SS vertebra. A chip fracture fragment is seen interior to the interior to the right pubic bone. There’s widening of the pubic symphysis with external rotation of the right ischial bone. Mild widening of the inferior aspect of the left sacroiliac joint is also noted.

“The right sacroiliac and left acetabulofemoral joints are preserved. No dislocation of the scetabulofemoral or sacroiliac joints is seen bilaterally. The visualised proximal femora and left hemipelvic bones are intact. The bone density is normal. The overlying soft tissue planes appear normal. Conclusion: There’s the Right acetabular fracture, involving the anterior and posterior walls and columns with Tile type C2 pelvic fracture.”

Nigerian Man Who Defrauded Over 1,000 Indians While Engaging In Matrimonial Scam Has Been Denied Bail.

The court took account of the “international and organised character of the syndicate” in which he was allegedly involved and the “technical sophistication” of their methods to deny him bail.

Paul Onyeji Atuh has been denied bail by the Delhi High Court in India.

Atuh was accused of engaging in matrimonial fraud.

The court took account of the “international and organised character of the syndicate” in which he was allegedly involved and the “technical sophistication” of their methods to deny him bail.

It was that Atuh was arrested in May 2022 alongside two other Nigerian nationals, Samuel Aniagor and Charles Pius Chukwuebuka, for allegedly cheating over 1,000 people of several crores of rupees in eight years via matrimonial sites and social media platforms.

Denying bail to Atuh on July 10, 2025, Justice Shalinder Kaur, reasoned that “the allegations against the petitioner are grave, both in terms of the modus operandi employed and the scale of the financial and digital fraud allegedly perpetrated.”

The accused, Atuh, was booked for cheating in March 2022 by the Cyber Central District police station in New Delhi following a complaint by a woman who alleged that she was cheated of Rs 55,900 by an individual who had identified himself as ‘Dr Ankit Verma’, a Canada resident, on the matrimonial website Sangam.com.

According to the complainant, in December 2021, she received a message that “Ankit Verma” had arrived at Delhi Airport from Canada and had been detained by Customs officials for carrying excessive foreign currency, and also received a call from an individual impersonating a Customs official, demanding a penalty of Rs 55,900.

The complainant transferred the amount in two instalments the same day. A second demand was then made for Rs 1.5 lakh for “clearance from the Ministry of Finance,” following which the complainant suspected foul play and lodged a formal complaint.

Atuh, who entered India in 2020 on student visa, was arrested in the case in May 2022 from Greater Noida, the police said. He allegedly admitted to his involvement.

The police probe later found that Atuh and two other accused operated using 26 bank accounts, 15 mobile phones, 20 SIM cards, two laptops, and four dongle devices. The police had also seized Rs 1.95 lakh in cash, and approximately Rs 4 lakh was frozen in various bank accounts.

Kaduna Court Jails Man for Internet Fraud

Justice Amina Bello of the Kaduna State High Court, sitting in Kaduna State has convicted and sentenced one Zeal Abraham to jail for fraud.

Abraham was prosecuted by the Kaduna Zonal Directorate of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, on a one-count charge that bordered on impersonation and cheating to the tune of $200 (Two Hundred Dollars).

The charge reads: "That you Zeal Abraham ( a.k.a Chris Mitchell)(m), sometime in 2025 at Kaduna within the jurisdiction of this Honourable Court, cheated one Laura Moss of the total sum of $200 USD (Two Hundred United States Dollars only), when you pretended to be Chris Mitchell; a musician on 'Zangi' (an online social media application), which you knew to be false and you thereby committed an offence contrary to Section 308 of the Kaduna Penal Code Law of 2017 and punishable under Section 309 of the same law."

He pleaded "guilty" following which the prosecution counsel, M.E Eimonye urged the court to convict and sentence him accordingly.

Justice Bello, thereafter, convicted and sentenced him to two years imprisonment or to pay N400,000.00 (Four Hundred Thousand Naira) fine. In addition, he forfeited a Samsung G9355 mobile phone, being the tool of his crime and the sum of $200.00USD (Two Hundred United States Dollars), being the proceeds of his crime to the federal government.

The convict was among those arrested by the Kaduna Zonal Directorate of the EFCC on Sabo, Post Office Road, following credible intelligence that exposed their fraudulent internet activities.

Nollywood Star Ruby Ojiakor Ties the Knot with Actor Moc Madu Amidst Mixed Reactions

Nollywood actress Ruby Ojiakor recently celebrated her white wedding with fellow actor Moc Madu on Saturday, May 31, 2025, in Asaba, Delta State. The event was attended by friends, family, and industry colleagues, marking a significant milestone in the couple’s relationship. 

The couple shared their love story, revealing that their relationship blossomed from a friendship formed while working together on a film set in Anambra State. Ruby emphasized that Moc is not a womanizer, stating, “My husband is not a womaniser, because me I don’t like cheating men, I can’t stand it. My husband is Godfearing.” 

However, the wedding has not been without controversy. UK-based media personality Radiogad criticized the ceremony, labeling it as “classless” and alleging that Moc Madu included many of his gay friends as groomsmen. Radiogad further claimed that the marriage might not last beyond five years, suggesting that Ruby married out of desperation. 

Despite the criticisms, many fans have shown support for the couple, expressing their well-wishes and admiration for their love story. 

#RubyOjiako #MocMad #NollywoodWedding #CelebrityMarriage

Davido’s White Wedding, Cheating Confession, and Baby Mama Drama Stir Buzz Online

Afrobeats superstar Davido is back in the spotlight—and not just for his music. The singer recently announced plans for a white wedding with his longtime partner, Chioma, sparking excitement among fans. The couple, who share a son together, appear stronger than ever as they prepare to officially tie the knot.

In a candid moment, Davido also opened up about his personal life, claiming he’s done cheating after fathering five children. He attributed much of the criticism he receives to his wealthy background, stating, “I’m the most criticized artist in Nigeria.”

But it’s not all celebration—tension is rising between two of his baby mamas. Sophia Momodu reportedly unfollowed Laplubelle on social media after cozy photos of Laplubelle with Davido went viral. The online buzz hints at deeper conflict brewing behind the scenes.

From wedding bells to family drama, Davido continues to keep fans talking.
—According to naijanews.com
#Davido #Chioma #Afrobeats #DavidoWedding #CelebrityDrama #NigerianEntertainment