2005-Born Bride Marries Much Older Man, ‘Age Is Just a Number’ Sparks Online Debate”…….

young lady born in 2005 has gone viral after celebrating her marriage to her much older lover, declaring that “age is just a number.” She shared photos from their wedding and proudly revealed her husband’s age, which quickly set social media abuzz. While some users congratulated the couple and wished them a happy union, others expressed shock and concern over the wide age gap. The revelation has ignited debates online about love, maturity, and age differences in relationships.
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Speed Darlington Sparks Reactions After Refusing ₦20k for Girlfriend’s Malaria Drugs……
Rapper Speed Darlington has ignited heavy reactions online after a blunt exchange with his girlfriend over a request for ₦20,000 to buy malaria drugs. In a viral clip, he spoke in Igbo, telling her to “remove her mind” from getting the money from him and instead ask her father. He went further to question her love for him, suggesting she was only with him for financial support. The video has divided fans, with some criticizing his lack of empathy while others defended his stance on personal responsibility in relationships.#Fintternews

Bishop Dayo Olutayo Introduces New Mummy GO After Divorcing Wife of 33 Years, Sparks Social Media Reactions

Bishop Dayo Olutayo, younger brother of Faith Oyedepo, introduced his new wife, Funlola Akinrinde, as Mummy GO during a live-streamed Thanksgiving service at Unity Worship Centre, Abuja. The announcement came amid reports of his divorce from Boluwatife Olutayo after 33 years of marriage.

During the live broadcast, Bishop Dayo addressed critics, urging the congregation to welcome his new wife with applause and stated he had “never been married” before, while hinting at a past conspiracy against his life. Church members cheered and celebrated the new union.

Social media reactions were mixed, with some praising his honesty and leadership, while others sympathized with his former wife. The development has sparked widespread discussions on relationships, marriage, and leadership among clergy in Nigeria.

Men Are Now Rapidly Pursuing Single Mothers” — Iyabo Ojo Reveals as She Declares Herself the President-General of Single Mothers Nationwide

Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo has challenged long-standing stereotypes surrounding single motherhood, describing single mothers as resilient, accomplished, and increasingly admired in today’s society.

Speaking at a recent public gathering, the actress said the narrative that paints single mothers as disadvantaged no longer reflects reality. According to her, many single mothers are excelling in their careers, families, and personal lives, earning respect for the discipline and values they instill in their children.

Iyabo Ojo noted that the dedication shown in raising a child single-handedly has become a point of admiration rather than criticism.

She remarked that men now openly acknowledge this strength, often expressing a desire for commitment rather than secrecy. “Men are running after single mothers like cr@zy,” she said, adding that many now prefer marriage over side relationships because of the maturity and experience single mothers bring into partnerships.

“Look at the child you single handedly trained I can imagine how the one you’ll have for me will turn out to be well mannered” In a moment that drew cheer from other attendees of the event, Iyabo Ojo confidently crowned herself “the President General of the single mothers’ nation”.

Her remarks have since sparked conversations online, with many applauding her for redefining single motherhood as a symbol of strength, competence, and dignity rather than stigma.

ICPC Set To Investigate CAC Registrar-General Magaji Over Alleged Corporate Record Alterations

The Independent Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Commission (ICPC) is poised to probe the Registrar-General of the Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC), Mr. Hussaini Ishaq Magaji, SAN, following allegations by Ghanaian investors in JonahCapital Nigeria Ltd and Houses For Africa Nigeria Ltd. The investors claim Magaji unlawfully altered corporate records, expropriated shares, and removed directors connected to the River Park Estate project in Lugbe, Abuja. They argue that these actions bypassed court authority, jeopardized banking relationships, and undermined ongoing civil suits. The petitioners are calling for a full reversal of the administrative actions, restoration of company records, and prosecution of the CAC Registrar-General for abuse of office.

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COAS VISITS OBA OF LAGOS, SOLICITS TRADITIONAL SUPPORT FOR MILITARY OPERATIONS

The Chief of Army Staff (COAS), Lieutenant General Waidi Shaibu, on Thursday, 11 December 2025, paid a courtesy visit to the Oba of Lagos, His Royal Majesty Oba Rilwan Akiolu I, at his palace in Lagos.

During the visit, the COAS expressed profound appreciation to the revered monarch and the council of Obas for their consistent support to the Nigerian Army. He noted that the purpose of his visit was not only to extend his gratitude but also to seek the blessings of the royal father, stressing that Nigeria’s customs and traditions remain sacrosanct and must always be honoured.

General Shaibu lauded Oba Akiolu for the fatherly role he has continually played in supporting Army formations and institutions across Lagos State. He described the Oba’s guidance and goodwill as invaluable to the Army’s operational and civil–military cooperation efforts.

In his response, the Oba of Lagos commended the Nigerian Army for its unwavering commitment to safeguarding the nation and maintaining peace. He described the Army as a critical pillar upon which the Nigerian State stands, adding that the sacrifices and professionalism of its personnel have contributed significantly to national stability.

Oba Akiolu also applauded the COAS for his steadfast leadership and dedication to ensuring a peaceful and secure country. He thereafter offered special prayers for sustained peace in Nigeria and for Lieutenant General Shaibu’s successful tenure as the 25th Chief of Army Staff.

The visit underscores the Nigerian Army’s commitment to strengthening relationships with traditional institutions as vital stakeholders in the nation’s peace and security architecture

APPOLONIA ANELE
Colonel
Acting Director Army Public Relations
11 December 2025

ARMY, EFCC in Fresh Synergy against Graft in Edo

The Commander, 4 Brigade, Nigerian Army, Brigadier General A. O. Balogun has pledged the support of the Nigeria Army to the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, in its fight against corruption, economic and financial crimes.

Balogun made this pledge on Monday December 8, 2025 while on a courtesy visit to the Benin Zonal Directorate of the Commission. According to the General, who recently assumed office as the Commander of 4 Brigade, Benin City, the EFCC needs the support of every Nigerian given its role as the foremost anti-corruption agency in Nigeria.

The General further noted that the Commission needed the support of critical stakeholders to successfully block or trace the movement of funds to nip financial offences in the bud. "If we can detect the flow of funds, we can nip such crimes in the bud."

He disclosed that the Commission and the military has had a long history of collaboration, including training of personnel, curtailing illegal oil bunkering and a host of others . "One of the reasons for our visit is to familiarise ourselves with the leadership of the Commission so that we can build on the existing relationships between the two institutions. It is not about competition but about collaboration. It doesn't matter who kills the snake as much as the snake is killed."
He revealed the military is willing to collaborate and offer any kind of support to the Commission whenever it is called upon to do so.

Responding, the Acting Zonal Director of the Benin, Deputy Commander of the Commission, DCE Sa'ad Hanafi Sa'ad commended the army general and his men for their visit. He noted that synergy and collaboration were crucial as no single agency or institution can effectively eliminate crimes and criminality in the society. 'We build synergy and collaborate with relevant stakeholders and the Nigeria Army is a critical stakeholder. Our interest and your interest are the same, which is to have a better Nigeria and so we are willing to collaborate with you."

Sola Allyson Reveals She Lives Separately From Husband, Says She’s Never Experienced Joy in Marriage

Nigerian gospel and soul singer Sola Allyson has spoken candidly about the struggles in her marriage, revealing on the Oyinmomo Podcast that she and her husband, Toyin Obaniyi, now live in separate homes despite remaining legally married. Married since 2003 and parents of three, the singer explained that the decision was mutual and not rooted in hostility.
Allyson admitted she has never felt the “joy of marriage” people often describe, calling her marital journey challenging but not bitter. She emphasised that she values mutual respect in relationships and will give her all as long as she is not maltreated. Her revelation stirred wide reactions online, with many praising her honesty and others questioning her stance. The singer’s past comments about relationships, independence, and women’s expectations also resurfaced in public discussions.

Pastor and Wife End 11-Year Marriage in the UK: Japa Strain Sparks Concern Over Broken Homes

A pastor and his wife have ended their 11-year marriage, despite having three children and spending only three years in the UK. The story reflects a growing trend where many Nigerian couples face severe marital strain after relocating abroad. The “japa” wave is increasingly linked to rising divorce rates, with even long-term relationships — including a couple who courted for four years — collapsing within months due to new pressures and “irreconcilable differences.” The incident has sparked deeper questions about why marriages that survive in Nigeria suddenly fail shortly after relocation.

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Nigerian Military Bans Officers From Marrying Foreigners And Naturalized Citizens.

The Nigerian Armed Forces have enforced a new directive prohibiting officers from marrying foreigners or naturalized Nigerians.

The rule, contained in the Harmonized Terms and Conditions of Service (HTACOS) 2024, also forbids commissioned officers from marrying non-commissioned personnel like soldiers, ratings, or airwomen.

Signed by the President and approved by the Armed Forces Council in December 2024, the new policy mandates strict compliance. It specifies that officers must obtain prior approval and undergo vetting before marriage. Chapter 25, Subsection 5 of the document clearly states that “no officer is allowed to marry a foreigner or a naturalised Nigerian.”

The law also bars newly commissioned officers from marrying during their probation. Those already married before commissioning must live in the Officers’ Mess for at least three months before qualifying for married housing.

A retired major general explained that the rule aims to protect classified information, warning that marriage to a foreigner could risk divided loyalty if Nigeria ever enters conflict with that country.

However, retired Group Captain Shehu Sadeeq called for a review, saying other nations like the US and UK allow such marriages under strict vetting. He noted that an outright ban could infringe on officers’ personal rights.

Human rights advocate Dr. Zikirullahi Ibrahim criticised the rule as discriminatory, questioning why politicians and top officials with dual citizenship are not held to the same standard. He argued that only senior officers in sensitive positions should face such restrictions.

In contrast, Auwal Rafsanjani of CISLAC supported the law, insisting that those entrusted with national security must prioritise the country’s interest over personal relationships.

The HTACOS 2024 replaces the 2017 version and will remain valid for five years before review.

Bovi Sparks Reactions as he declares Monogamy a social construct.

During a recent episode of Mentality, Nigerian entertainer Bovi, TV host Ebuka, and singer Banky W engaged in a candid discussion on the evolving concept of monogamy in contemporary society.

Bovi sparked the conversation by suggesting that “monogamy is a social construct,” hinting at the shifting dynamics of relationships in modern times. Ebuka then posed a provocative question, asking whether monogamy could become extinct in the next decade, referencing perceptions that many Lagos women engage in extramarital affairs and the increasing normalization of polyamory.

Banky W, however, took a measured stance, pushing back against sweeping generalizations. “I think I push back when we make generalistic statements… Lagos women are like this, Nigerian men are like that.

You’re casting a blanket of assumption on everybody,” he said. He emphasized the potential harm of such stereotypes, particularly for shaping the expectations of younger generations.

Speaking from his personal experience, Banky W highlighted the role of spirituality in maintaining a committed relationship. “I don’t believe that monogamy is impossible, but my experience is that it is possible with God. When there’s God in the picture, you answer to a higher authority, and that helps you say there are some lines I’m not going to cross,” he noted.

The episode provided a nuanced perspective on monogamy, challenging assumptions while also addressing the influence of faith and personal values in sustaining committed relationships.

"Over 200k people are living with HIV in Rivers state"— Nedu’s podcast guest says, as they raise awareness about the high HIV rate in Lagos.

A recent episode of The Clarity Zone Podcast hosted by media personality Nedu Wazobia sparked conversations online after a guest opened up about the growing concern of HIV/AIDS in Lagos and other parts of Nigeria.

Speaking on the show, the guest highlighted the alarming statistics of HIV prevalence across several states, naming Rivers, Benue, Akwa Ibom, and Anambra as some of the states with the highest number of people living with the virus.

“Rivers State has over 200k. The next is Akwa Ibom with over 100k, and funny enough, Anambra State also has about 100k,” the guest said.

The speaker, also discussed efforts being made to promote awareness and connection among people living with the virus, citing the idea of ‘positive bondship’ a space where HIV-positive individuals can meet and build relationships safely.

“We’re trying so hard to curb it, that’s why we have positive bondship that’s why if you’re HIV positive, you can meet your fellow HIV positive. But on this part of the Island, people just believe because I’m positive doesn’t mean I cannot be with who’s negative,” the guest added.

They went on to address the widespread stigma and denial surrounding HIV, noting that many Nigerians, including influential figures, live with the virus in silence.

“A lot of people are in denial. Some of them are like, ‘Anything can kill a man, no be to die?’ Even our politicians, some of them are like that they are HIV positive. Most times people don’t know,” the guest said.

The emotional confession has stirred discussions on social media, with many praising the speaker’s courage to break the silence on a topic often treated as taboo in Nigeria.

Nigerian tiktoker peller,recently spoke about his relationship with jarvis during a live video with media personality daddy freeze. he said, “i can’t be sleeping and another person go come marry am for my hand is not good.”

He added, “even if i don’t marry her now, i will get her pregnant to give birth for me, then she will calm down.” when asked if such a plan would really work, he said, “yes, i always see the comment that someone i’m supposed to have gotten pregnant since.”

He continued, “now i see where it’s coming from because i love children”when asked how many kids he would want her to have for him he said “and i want her to give birth to two for me. two kids is enough so that she can still be fine and beautiful.”

Peller’s remarks have sparked reactions online, with many discussing his controversial approach to relationships and parenting. jarvis has remained mostly private, while fans continue to follow the story closely.

"Yahoo Boys Have Killed Romance in Nigeria"— Rapper Erigga.

Nigerian rapper Erhiga Agarivbie, better known as Erigga, has sparked conversation online after claiming that internet fraudsters, popularly called Yahoo Boys, have “killed romance” in Nigeria.

Speaking in an interview with Yanga FM, the Warri-born artiste said the flashy lifestyle of Yahoo Boys has distorted relationships by creating unrealistic expectations among women. 

According to him, their habit of spending lavishly has made it difficult for genuine love to thrive.

“Yahoo boys don kill romance. Romance no longer exists. When last did you see two lovers holding hands together on the street? It’s been a long time. The problem now is that we are raising weak men who believe their entire value lies in their pockets,” he said.

Erigga lamented that relationships, once simple and heartfelt, have now become transactional. He recalled that romance used to be “affordable,” noting that couples once found joy in the little things.

“Back then, it used to be meat pie — very affordable — and women were appreciative. But men also share in the blame; weak men set the standards that women later raised,” he added.

The rapper’s comments have reignited debate about materialism, masculinity, and the state of modern relationships in Nigeria.

Halal Love: Getting to Know Someone Without Crossing the Line

In Islam, love and marriage are sacred — but that doesn’t mean you can’t get to know someone before marriage.
What matters most is intention, modesty, and boundaries.

Islam doesn’t support modern “dating,” where people spend private time together, form attachments, or explore multiple relationships casually.
But it does allow getting to know a potential spouse — respectfully, sincerely, and with the intention of marriage.

If a woman hasn’t committed to anyone yet, she can speak to more than one suitor to understand their values and goals — as long as:
• The talks stay respectful and purposeful.
• There’s no physical or romantic intimacy.
• The process is known to family or a guardian.

Islam encourages transparency and honor, not secrecy or temptation.
Real love in Islam is built on trust, purpose, and purity — not hidden messages or private meetings.

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OAP Nedu Wazobia Claims Married Men ‘Lack Work-Out the Most’

Popular on-air personality and comedian, Nedu Wazobia, has stirred conversation online after claiming that many married men suffer from a lack of sexual satisfaction.

Speaking on The Clarity Zone Podcast, Nedu said most married men are deprived of sex, despite public perceptions that marriage ensures regular intimacy.

“Do you know that the people that lack sex most are married men? All you that are watching me, don’t sit down there and pretend,” he said.

His comment has since sparked mixed reactions among social media users, with some agreeing that marital responsibilities and stress often reduce intimacy, while others accused him of making a generalised and controversial statement.

Nedu, known for his controversial takes on relationships, has previously made headlines for his outspoken views on marriage, fidelity, and gender roles in modern relationships.

Army Condemns Killing of Officer Allegedly Set Ablaze by Wife in Akwa Ibom.

The Nigerian Army’s 2 Brigade in Akwa Ibom State has condemned the tragic death of Lieutenant Samson Haruna, the Regimental Medical Officer of the 6 Battalion, who reportedly d+ed after his wife allegedly set him ablaze during a domestic altercation at the Wellington Bassey Barracks.

In a statement released on Tuesday by the Assistant Director of Army Public Relations, Lieutenant Lawal Muhammad, the Army described the incident as deeply regrettable and extended its condolences to the late officer’s family.

According to the statement, preliminary investigations revealed that the incident occurred on September 22, 2025, following a heated argument between Lieutenant Haruna and his wife, Mrs. Retyit Obadiah Dalong Samson Haruna. The disagreement, said to have arisen from a family dispute, escalated when Mrs. Haruna allegedly set fire to household items, leading to an inferno that fatally injured her husband.

The officer suffered severe burns and was initially treated at the Battalion Medical Facility before being transferred to the University of Uyo Teaching Hospital, where he later d+ed in the early hours of Tuesday.

“The Nigerian Army strongly condemns this act of domestic violence and emphasises the importance of peaceful coexistence and mutual respect within families,” the statement said.

It further noted that the Army remains committed to promoting healthy relationships, discouraging domestic violence, and fostering dialogue and understanding within families and communities.

The statement added that the military police had launched an investigation into the incident and urged the public to remain calm while awaiting the outcome.

Varsity VC Moves Against Misconduct Among Lecturers.

The Vice Chancellor of the University of Cross River State (UNICROSS), Prof Francisca Bassey, has issued a stern warning to lecturers who engage in sexual harassment of students or demand money for grades.
The VC issued the warning while speaking with LEADERSHIP after a Thanksgiving ceremony yesterday at Shalom Ministries, Calabar.

Bassey warned that any lecturer found guilty of such misconduct should be prepared to face the consequences associated with such misconduct.

“I will not spare any man who cannot hold his groins,” the VC reportedly said, emphasising the institution’s commitment to maintaining a safe and respectful learning environment.

The VC’s warning comes amid growing concerns about lecturer-student relationships and exploitation in Nigerian universities.

The VC’s stance is seen as a bold move towards addressing these issues and promoting a culture of accountability within the institution.

The university community has welcomed the VC’s warning, with many students and staff members expressing hope that it will lead to a safer and more respectful environment for all.

The VC’s office has confirmed the statement, reiterating the institution’s zero-tolerance policy towards harassment and exploitation.

I have never tried to convince my wife, who’s a pastor, to convert from Christianity to Islam — President Tinubu discloses as he urges Nigerians to embrace religious tolerance.

President Bola Ahmed Tinubu has called on Nigerians to embrace peace, love, and tolerance across religious divides, stressing that h+tred should never be an option in the nation’s quest for unity.

Speaking during a condolence message, the President said that the teachings of love and mutual respect should form the foundation of human relationships, regardless of faith or background.

“Hate is not an option for us; love is what we preach that we should love one another. Nobody can deter what God has ordained. God’s ordained actions and prophecies are what matter,” Tinubu said.

The President, who spoke about his interfaith marriage, explained that he was born into an Islamic family but has never allowed religion to create division in his home. “I inherited Islam from my family and I didn’t change, but my wife is a pastor and she prays for me.

There’s no confl+ct, and I have never at any time tried to convince her to convert to Islam. I believe in freedom of religion because we are praying to the same God. We are answerable to the same Almighty, and our deeds and character will be judged by Him. How we treat our fellow beings is what truly matters,” he said.

Tinubu concluded by offering prayers for the repose of the late Lydia’s soul, asking God to grant her eternal rest and bless all she left behind. “To Almighty God, we pray to accept the soul of Lydia and give all that she left behind blessing and glory. May her soul rest in peace,” he added.