Bovi Sparks Reactions as he declares Monogamy a social construct. During a recent episode of Mentality, Nigerian entertainer Bovi, TV host Ebuka, and singer Banky W engaged in a candid discussion on the evolving concept of monogamy in contemporary society. Bovi sparked the conversation by suggesting that “monogamy is a social construct,” hinting at the shifting dynamics of relationships in modern times. Ebuka then posed a provocative question, asking whether monogamy could become extinct in the next decade, referencing perceptions that many Lagos women engage in extramarital affairs and the increasing normalization of polyamory. Banky W, however, took a measured stance, pushing back against sweeping generalizations. “I think I push back when we make generalistic statements… Lagos women are like this, Nigerian men are like that. You’re casting a blanket of assumption on everybody,” he said. He emphasized the potential harm of such stereotypes, particularly for shaping the expectations of younger generations. Speaking from his personal experience, Banky W highlighted the role of spirituality in maintaining a committed relationship. “I don’t believe that monogamy is impossible, but my experience is that it is possible with God. When there’s God in the picture, you answer to a higher authority, and that helps you say there are some lines I’m not going to cross,” he noted. The episode provided a nuanced perspective on monogamy, challenging assumptions while also addressing the influence of faith and personal values in sustaining committed relationships.

💖 Banky W & Adesua Etomi: A Year of Triumph, Love, and Family As of June 2, 2025, Nigerian power couple Banky W and Adesua Etomi-Wellington continue to inspire with their unwavering love and commitment to family. Here's a glimpse into their journey over the past year: 👶 Welcoming Baby Boy In October 2024, the couple joyfully announced the birth of their second child, a baby boy. Banky W shared a heartwarming video on Instagram, showcasing his active involvement in family life since the baby's arrival. He embraced roles such as chef, housekeeper, nanny, homework teacher, and masseuse, emphasizing the importance of partnership and supporting women's economic power. Adesua faced significant health challenges during her pregnancy, including hyperemesis gravidarum, a severe form of morning sickness. Amidst her struggles, she supported Banky W through his battle with a cancerous tumor, which required surgery. She expressed gratitude for the medical teams in Lagos and Washington, D.C., and praised her husband's unwavering support. Despite the trials, the couple's bond grew stronger. Adesua celebrated her husband's dedication, calling him the best partner in the world. Banky W, in turn, expressed his love and appreciation for Adesua, highlighting their shared journey and commitment to each other. In addition to their growing family, Banky W embarked on an academic journey by pursuing a Master's degree in Policy Management at Georgetown University in Washington, D.C. This move reflects the couple's commitment to personal growth and setting an example for their children about the importance of lifelong learning. As they continue to navigate life's challenges and joys, Banky W and Adesua Etomi-Wellington remain a testament to love, resilience, and partnership. Their journey inspires many, proving that with faith and support, any obstacle can be overcome. #BankyW #AdesuaEtomi #FamilyGoals #LoveAndResilience